whats the best advise you ever got from someone

“It’s a waste of time to fear being single or dying alone. Even if you’ve got someone in bed next to you, you’ve got to learn how to be okay with a certain kind of solitude. Nobody else lives inside your brain. You are always somewhat alone. Learn to embrace it for the gift it is.“Reacting to something out of anger or a need for revenge will only hurt you down the road. Take a second. Go for a walk. Cry it out. But don’t do something you will later regret when emotions aren’t as intense.””“You won’t ever love the same way twice, so you shouldn’t expect to. It’s a bit like ordering pizza from different restaurants — both slices of pizza, but still going to taste a little different. That doesn’t invalidate how good they might be, individually. But they still aren’t the same.”

Never shop at Victoria’s Secret. Do you really need your bra to fucking sparkle for $60? Gimme a break. Slap some fabric on those bad boys from Walmart, you’re fine.”“Sure, someone out there will always be prettier, smarter, funnier, a harder-worker, etc. And it’s so easy to drown ourselves in comparisons. But at the end of the day, none of that matters. Because you’re not in competition with anyone. You only have to prove yourself to one person: you“You cannot love someone hard enough that they start loving themselves back. That’s just not how it works. You cannot save someone who refuses to accept help. You’ll just destroy yourself in the process.”